Hi there!
This has been a months-long period of time where a lot of things have happened. Wow! How many fakes, flakes and losers have crossed my path! Such time wasters!
The most irritating thing is the number of cheapskates who offer in the neighborhood of $500 per night. Really! Are they thinking this is an escort website? They are of the variety "Tightass- Obnoxiousosis".
Girls, please don't fall for these offers. The men know a professional escort would charge several times that depending on her looks and class. The men come here looking for a hottie at a bargain price under the guise of being your "Sugardaddy"....when in fact, they often have no intention of getting locked into longterm, regular support. They want temporary, bargain satisafaction...then on to another for variety.
Evidently these men either cannot afford escort prices...( I like when they say "I don't want an escort"...that's sugardaddy-ese for... "I dont want to pay what hot escorts are charging")...so they figure if they send out enough queries they'll find a young, desperate, naive girl who will fall for this come-on.
Is this respect? I think not. Is it really a S/D, S/B arrangement? It's not that either. I honestly would prefer to do without than to surrender to that game. I respect myself all the more, and I believe I simultaneously strengthen the prospects and cause for S/B's everywhere.
We should not allow the guys this manipulation. They can go to Craigslist to scratch that itch. It is in the interest of all Sugarbabies to stand united and firm on this issue. If the men want a real Sugarbaby, they should honor the original definition of being a Sugardaddie. Men should respect and value us, and it is only we who can ensure that happens! If a man proposes a "pay by the visit" arrangement, or a "test drive" for low bucks, my experience is that the man is A) Broke or very very stingy B) usually one who is out to get a lot of variety and very unlikely to be a regular benefactor C) typically a 4 or 5 who thinks he deserves a 10....when in reality he will never get a 10 because he is poor or so abysmally petty and insufferably unattractive.
Another species I'd like to cover is the "Loneliaski-fulfilled-by-flirtiingosis", or unscientifically, the limp-dick dud. He writes romantic letters and makes from-the-heart phonecalls and convinces you he is really a nice guy....with a heart. He shares intimate thoughts and acts as though he's truly interested and promises to change your life for the better. he makes plans, acts enthused...even in love, then vanishes suddenly without a peep. This order is occupied, I believe by those men who are lonely, perhaps married or otherwise committed, but wanting very much to feel the thrill of flirtation, seduction and fantasizing, but never really intending to make a real-life meeting or have a relationship of any kind...other than to feel the satisfaction of an imaginary affair. These dickless maggots need a psychotherapist much more than a sugarbaby.
Lastly, theres the "I-have-to-winski-all-the-timeski" genus. This group will pursue you feverishly until you submit to a meeting, at which time they concoct six quintillion excuses for why they cannot meet, from business problems to family health crises. It was simply all about knowing they could date you...if they truly wanted...or had the time...or were not so hopelessly impoverished and impotent.
It is better to curl up with a good book than succumb to these time-wasting vermin. Perhaps one day we'll start our own site, owned and operated by the Sugarbaby Alliance....and ALL prospective Sugardaddys will be screened to ensure they have the liquidity and the serious intent ;-) ;-) ;-). If they do not conduct at least one verifiable traditional S/D S/B relationship within three months, we will exile them to the other limp-dick sites whose motives are profit-only and not about fulfilled expectations.
Fortunately, there are some serious and successful men left out there, it is just a matter of having the tenacity and perseverance to locate them and gain an opportunity to meet them face to face...and work our feminine magic ;-))))))))
